Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Ram a 1st messneger for humanity.....and Environment care taker!

ayaa hai parva Ram Navami ka, sanvaliya Ramji ki jivan ke anusaran karne ka,

Mayarda purushottam the vo, unho ne hi sikhaya Prakruti s e pyar karne ka,

Jisne Mitaya ashprushyata ka bhedbhav kevat ki nayya me baith ke,

Prem aur bhakti bhari Shabri ke zoothe bor kha liye unho ne haste haste

Ahlya ka uddhar karke sikhaya mat smazo nari ko patit,
................................................ Nari ki mahatta smazayi raste chalte chalte

Unch nich ka bhedbhav mitaya Ram rajya me, Bandaro aur pakshyon ko mitra banaya jisne!

Sagar aur nadiyon ki puja karke paryavarn ki raksha karana sikhaya tha unhone!!!!!

Ek patnivrata rahke purushon ka bhi patni ki mahtta samzayi thi unhone!!!!!!!!!!........

aadarsh putra, sansar me rahke bhi bhai ke liye tyaji thi gadi,
aadarsh santan , aadarsh putra , aadarsh raja rahe the vo apne jamane ke....
...
Insaniyat ke the vo devta..Bharat ratna ka sravochh pratahm pratik the....!

Nahi banaya tha mandir unhone, banaya Rameshwar sirf samanda r ki reti se .............

sabit kar diya snasar ke har ek kan me ishwar hai.......

Mere maryada purushottam Ramji Kamlesh aur sare sansar ka aap ko shat shat naman hai!

Sunday, March 14, 2010

SEX AND SWAMIS

Each and every day of life, in our society we come to know about sex scandals of Swamis, leaders and others. Recently By Nityananda 4 Mar 2010 -


Sun News has just released an unbelievable video of Swami Nithyananda with Tamil actress
which are now leading many to believe that ...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqZ-bQ0yvQ4


and

sex scandal of delhi baba chitrakut
YouTube - Godman in sex scandal
3 Mar 2010 ... Delhi Police on Friday claimed to have busted a sex racket allegedly ... According to Dhaliwal, Dwivedi comes from Chitrakoot in UP. ... It was then that Dwivedi disguised himself as a godman and a disciple of Sai Baba. ...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=qDefB3e-cFM -

The News inspired me to rise the concern how to we can avoid such happenings in society? Since my child hood I notice such kind of incidents which is black spot on our concept and culture. As I thought why its happening……simple answer is we all are in hurry and going to get as soon as fast to fulfills our desirous in any way so people always takes short cuts and going to such Swami’s / Astrologers / Tantriks who are doing propaganda with their position and religious hold with money power of them!

We must have to clear concept of real Brahmcharya…. We cannot proceed on the path of pure Spirituality unless we have absolute faith in the system of God. Nothing in the domain of God operates below the level of hundred percent. Even a steam engine would not operate at 99° centigrade for to produce steam we require the water to boil at hundred degrees centigrade.


Brahma aacharya is Brahmacharya. The person who follows the Brahma thathwa in maintaining the discipline of body and mind is a Brahmachari. A Brahma aachari alone can know the Brahmaswa of the aathman through meditation.

Prasnopanishad says: "Here is Brahmana wherein the master clearly points out that no upasana is possible or spiritual perfection practicable without austerity, Brahmacharya or celibacy and faith". Certainly, in these days, over-indulgence, sensuousness and lack of faith, these conditions would read as almost a list of impossible terms for a human personality to follow. In fact, if we understand the importance of these three terms in their perspective, we shall find a complete and satisfactory intellectual appeal to accept and justify the scriptural insistence upon these three conditions.
Brahmacharya is not merely a control of sex impulse, as people generally understand. The man who follows the Brahma thathwa, the man who has realized the brahma jnana, who follows the principle of the Brahma, is a Brahmachari. He uses everything according to the requirements of the aathman. When the panchendriyas function, as they should, the mana and the thought function according to the requirements, and the purity of thoughts is maintained, the aathman functions as it should for the sharira and the mana. Such a person is called a Brahmachari. Maharishis and Munis also use their panchendriyas, knowingly and religiously and only conforming to the requirements of the aathman. This implies that one should eat only what is the required for the aathman, listen only to what is necessary for the aathman, and see only what is required for the aathman. Brahmacharya does not mean to negate something from you. This may create suppression or imbalance. At the thought level one should be a Brahmachari. One who gets tempted at the sight of food is not a Brahmachari. The one who realizes what he wants and acts accordingly is a Brahmachari.
Austerity does not merely mean self-denial or forced self-restraint, but it insists upon a constant output of intelligent effort in curbing the flesh from all its ruinous tendencies to suicidal excesses. The celibacy or Brahmacharya means more than the control of sex act. It includes in its point of view a mental control at the very source of all gross and dissipating thought eruptions.

A person, who abstains from the act of sex, even if has thoughts of such acts in various manners, he will break the Brahmacharya. Importance has been given to abstain even from the thoughts of sexual activities as this act/Kaama, is the prime cause of krodha and lobha i.e.; anger and greed. Kaama, krodha, moha and lobha ( lust, anger, desire and greed) are the negative thoughts leading us to all our negative actions and therefore negative results thereby creation of negative "samskaara". Brahmacharya means abstinence from the negative imbalanced perverted thoughts and actions.

Do things in the righteous manner realizing the needs of such actions and not for fulfillment of desirous activities of the panchendriyas. Realize the karma of panchendriyas and a person who executes such karmas in the right way through the indriyas and mana (mind) is a Brahmachari.

This is attributed to:

1. Food
2. Sleep pattern
3. Mental and physical control
4. Keeping all the thoughts to limited and positive means.
5. Desirelessness
6. Non-indulgence of thoughts and acts in criminal, perverted and corrupt activities.
7. Enlightenment and enrichment of Wisdom through meditational practices.
8. Silence
9. Service to all living beings.
10. Living in detachment.
11. Leading others into righteous paths of life.
12. Practicing healthy activities to mind, body and spirit.

He who has attained the above only is the right Brahmachari. Only a Brahmachari has the authority to do upasana to the Guru and thereby attain moksha (liberation) and reach the Hiranyagarbha.


Yam
The first and primary step of Yog is Yam. There are five Yam : Ahimsa (non-violence), Satya (truthfulness), Asteya (non-stealing), Brahmcharya (celibacy) and Aprigraha (non-desire).
Brahmacharya: The fourth Yam is Brahmacharya. The simple meaning of Brahmacharya is to lead a controlled sex life even as a house-holder living in society. Enjoying sex is one of the most natural desires of a householder. Without it, a man's life becomes dull. But while controlled sex gives joy, energy and knowledge, inordinate indulgence gives rise to dissatisfaction and unhappiness. For a man living with his family, Brahmacharya means enjoyment of sex with spouse in a controlled manner.

As we know of recent eras the God realized person and an enlightened one... is there any difference between Ramakrishna Paramhansa and Gautama Buddha. (Both were married…..)




Hinduism teach the sex to whole world by :

Lakshana Sastra, or the science of determining the sex in animate and inanimate creation


Sage Sakatayana is the author of Lakshana Sastra, or the science of determining the sex in animate and inanimate creation. Babhru Muni has written about Kanya-Lakshana in which 32 marks are indicated for chastity etc. Sage Garga has written on Sakuna Sastra, the determination of good and bad effects from the sounds of birds, words of human beings etc. (in other words, omens).

Ayurveda treats the whole man under eight principal heads of treatment. Pharmacology too is included in this category. Kamasastra (science of sex) also belongs to this category. Sasruta has written a work on rejuvenation. Vatsyayana has written the Kamasastra. The object of writing this Sastra appears to be not encouragement of indulgence but regulation of sex-life.
k. Sobhanamu is the Nuptials arranged by the parents of the bride in their residence first and in the residence of the groom next. This is the starting of the enjoyment of the joy of the sex as learned in the Gurukula by reading the Kama sastra and implementing it in a socially acceptable way for the joy and the bliss and for the progeny of the race.
l. Gharbhadanamu is the act of sex for the progeny. This is set on the day that is neutral from the cosmic influences like the moons gravity and the suns gravity or other disturbances to create the foetus for the Jiva to enter in to the Womb of the mother to take the birth to perform his cycle of karma and to make the parents to fulfils the cycle of the karma
http://www.mailerindia.com/hindu/veda/index.php?hindumarriage


Sex symbols have been associated with Hinduism from an early stage. These symbols were mainly part of nature worship. There is difference of opinion regarding the exact reason for sex sculptures in Hindu temples. And the notion of Hindu sex temples is wrong. A Classic example is Khajuraho were only 20% of the sculptures are sex sculptures that too they are depicted along with other aspects life.
Kama (materialistic living which includes sex) is one among the four paths suggested in Hinduism to merge with Brahman or to escape from rebirth (Moksha). Many scholars think these sculptures were meant to explain the ‘Kama’ aspect to people.
A closer study of Hinduism will reveal that sex was never a taboo during the ancient period. Some believe they were meant for sex education and there is nothing unnatural for temples to have them. In fact, the sex sculptures are all seen outside the Hindu temple along with other sculptures depicting materialistic way of life.


These three things are to be taken note of: the lowest love is sex - it is physical - and the highest refinement of love is compassion. Sex is below love, compassion is above love; love is exactly in the middle. Very few people know what love is. Ninety-nine percent of people, unfortunately, think sexuality is love - it is not. Sexuality is very animal; it certainly has the potential of growing into love, but it is not actual love, only a potential…. If you become aware and alert, meditative, then sex can be transformed into love. And if your meditativeness becomes total, absolute, love can be transformed into compassion. Sex is the seed, love is the flower, compassion is the fragrance. Buddha has defined compassion as love plus meditation. When your love is not just a desire for the other, when your love is not only a need, when your love is a sharing, when your love is not that of a beggar but an emperor, when your love is not asking for something in return but is ready only to give - to give for the sheer joy of giving - then add meditation to it and the pure fragrance is released. That is compassion; compassion is the highest phenomenon.


It is not a difficult task even for an ordinary mortal to recognize a God realized soul amongst the various Spiritual masters of the era. our atman the soul within always prompts one on the right path... the moment we come across a God realized person we shall know the truth for a God realized person never refers to any document whatsoever including any sacred Scripture for he knows all... for all practical purposes a God realized person becomes omniscient... the nor of all.

Then why we need such Swamis / Such Astrologers ………who really take innocent people in hell for their sexual / wealth and power desirous?????


KRISHNAM VANDE JAGADGURM!!! Let believes Krishna / Prophet Mohammad & Jesus as our gurus and best messenger who established spiritual and ritual guideline for the happy and healthy society! Amen…!!!

ATTITUDE IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.......

ATTITUDE IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.......

1. SOLDIER : SIR WE ARE SURROUNDED FROM ALL SIDES BY ENEMIES ,
MAJOR : EXCELLENT ! WE CAN ATTACK IN ANY DIRECTION.

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2. EVERY ONE KNOWS ABOUT ALEXANDER GRAHAM BELL WHO INVENTED THE
TELEPHONE, BUT HE NEVER MADE A CALL TO HIS FAMILY. BECAUSE, HIS
WIFE AND DAUGHTER WERE DEAF. THAT'S LIFE " LIVE FOR OTHERS " .
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3. THE WORST IN LIFE IS "ATTACHMENT " IT HURTS WHEN YOU LOSE
IT. THE BEST THING IN LIFE IS " LONELINESS " BECAUSE IT TEACHES
YOU EVERYTHING AND, WHEN YOU LOSE IT, YOU GET EVERYTHING.
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4. LIFE IS NOT ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO ACT TRUE TO YOUR
FACE ........ IT'S ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO REMAIN TRUE BEHIND
YOUR BACK .

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5. IF AN EGG IS BROKEN BY AN OUTSIDE FORCE..A LIFE ENDS. IF
AN EGG BREAKS FROM WITHIN...... .LIFE BEGINS. GREAT
THINGS ALWAYS BEGIN FROM WITHIN .

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6. IT'S BETTER TO LOSE YOUR EGO TO THE ONE YOU LOVE. THAN
TO LOSE THE ONE YOU LOVE ....... BECAUSE OF EGO .
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7. A RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T SHINE BY JUST SHAKING HANDS
AT THE BEST OF TIMES. BUT IT BLOSSOMS BY HOLDING FIRMLY
IN CRITICAL SITUATIONS.

8. HEATED GOLD BECOMES ORNAMENTS. BETTED COPPER BECOMES WIRES.
DEPLETED STONE BECOMES STATUE. SO, THE MORE PAIN YOU GET IN
YOUR LIFE THE MORE VALUABLE YOU BECOME.

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9. WHEN YOU TRUST SOMEONE TRUST HIM COMPLETELY WITHOUT
ANY DOUBT....... ....... AT THE END YOU WOULD GET ONE OF
THE TWO : EITHER A LESSON FOR YOUR LIFE OR A VERY
GOOD PERSON .

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10. WHY WE HAVE SO MANY TEMPLES, IF GOD IS EVERYWHERE ? A
WISE MAN SAID : AIR IS EVERYWHERE , BUT WE STILL NEED A FAN
TO FEEL IT.

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What you think of yourself is reflected
in the way you treat others.

A very effective way to raise your own level of confidence
is by acting positively toward the people around you.

Rudeness toward others, whether intentional or not,
is a sure sign of a lack of confidence.

When you have no respect or consideration for others,
it's difficult to have much confidence in yourself.

Ironically,one of the worst things you can do for yourself
is to think only of yourself.

The more genuine respect, consideration and
courtesy you express toward those around you,
the more your own confidence will grow.

If someone is rude to you,
make every effort to be sincerely pleasant
and courteous in return.

Just because someone else is allowing rudeness
to drain away their own energy,
doesn't mean you must do the same.

Have the confidence to be courteous,
and the confidence to act with genuine
respect toward others.

Your positive attitude and positive actions will
empower you with even more confidence and energy.

Now, take a look at this...


101%



From a strictly mathematical viewpoint:



What Equals 100%?
What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?

Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%?

We have all been in situations where someone wants you to
GIVE OVER 100%.

How about ACHIEVING 101%?


What equals 100% in life?


Here's a little mathematical formula that might help
answer these questions:


If:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Is represented as:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.


If:


H-A-R-D-W-O- R- K

8+1+18+4+23+ 15+18+11 =
98%


And:

K-N-O-W-L-E- D-G-E

11+14+15+23+ 12+5+4+7+ 5 = 96%


But:

A-T-T-I-T-U- D-E

1+20+20+9+20+ 21+4+5 = 100%



THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:



L-O-V-E-O-F- G-O-D

12+15+22+5+15+ 6+7+15+4 = 101%


Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:

While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will
get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

God bless!!

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed!


A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after
having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco.

"Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask. I have a
friend I'd like to bring home with me."

"Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him."

"There's something you should know the son continued, "he was hurt
pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mine and lost an
arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live
with us."

"I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to
live."

"No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us."

"Son," said the father, "you don't know what you're asking. Someone
with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our
own lives to live, and we can't let something like this interfere
with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about
this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own."

At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing
more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from
the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a
building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The
grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the
city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him,
but to their horror they also discovered something they didn't know,
their son had only one arm and one leg.

The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to
love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't
like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We
would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful,
or smart as we are. Thankfully, there's someone who won't treat us
that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that
welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we
are.

Tonight, before you tuck yourself in for the night, say a little
prayer that God will give you the strength you need to accept people
as they are, and to help us all be more understanding of those who
are different from us!!!

There's a miracle called Friendship That dwells in the heart You
don't know how it happens Or when it gets started But you know the
special lift It always brings And you realize that Friendship Is
God's most precious gift!


Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and
encourage you to succeed They lend an ear, they share a word of
praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us.

Friday, February 12, 2010

woman is powerfl generator of healthy society!

u know in our Hindu’s original language Sanskrit 1 shloka
(verses)abt a wife! Karyeshu mantri! Karneshu
dasi!shayanesu Rambha ! Bhojyesu mata ! dukhesu mitra
! n dharmeshu chhaya ! it means is that a peract wife
treats like a mother when m hungry n needs food! She
works like a secretary of the home! in matter of
secrecy she did the job like honest n loyal servant !
in sorrow she become a true friend 2 gives mental N
moral , physical support! N in bed she gaves u
happiness of heaven!
Indian culture n society respects woman lots! coz
woman only can make home n society happy! A well
cultured mother can poured the knowledge n discipline
more than 100 teachers! Where is the woman gets
respects that society can b liken heaven! The real
tears n bad wishes of woman may destroy whole society!
Woman is the not an instrument of happiness but she is
the power of nature ! Power of love ! Power of mercy!
Power of great patience!

Women Are Honored Where, Divinity Blossoms There (Yatra Naryastu Pujyante, Ramante Tatra Devata)
Womanhood has been reverenced in the ancient Indian culture as a manifestation of divine qualities. Womanhood is a symbol of eternal virtues of humanity expressed in compassion, selfless love and caring for others. The Indian philosophers of yore (the rishis) considered that the seeds of divinity grow and blossom in a truly cultured society where women are given due respect and equal opportunities of rise and dignity. The scriptures and later works on Indian culture and philosophy stand witness to the fact that women indeed receive high recognition and respect in the Vedic age. The contribution of women rishis in making the ancient Indian culture a divine culture were not less than those of their male counterparts. In the later ages too, women had always been integral part of cultural, social and intellectual evolution of the human society.

In spite of the declining phase of medieval era, where suppression and exploitation of women occurred at a faster pace than moral devaluation, women continued to prove their existence in every dimension of life. Though less in numbers, these endeavors of valor, bravery, struggle against untoward traditions, dedication for social welfare, scientific investigations, etc, were significant in terms of positive contributions.

Altruist service has been an area where the glory of women always shines brighter than that of men. Every woman, by nature, offers great service to her family and thereby to the society too. Her motherly sentiments are bestowed on almost everyone who comes in her contact. Many women have also made extraordinary contributions against all odds to the service of mankind at the national and global levels.

As a tribute to the expression of thee in womanhood, this volume presents a compilation of glorious works during the current millenium of women across the globe in different domains and under different circumstance of life.

The first chapter of this volume focuses on the great women whose revolutionary endeavors are significant in the modern history of religion, literature, politics, etc. The list of descriptions here includes - Rani Rasmani, Ma Shardamani, Durgavati, Amrapali, Ahilyabai, Lakshmibai, Talash Kunwar, Jijabai, Anandibai, Yesubai, Joan of Arc, Madame Kama, Subhadra Kumari Chauhan, Preetilata, Sarojini Naidu, Sarah Beanheart, Louis Michelle, Joyo Kosmode, Sophie Borden, Sokki Pero, Sister Cheval, Jamila, Udosiya, Ms Martha etc. The second and third chapters encompass the brief biographies and glorious deeds of the women who had dedicated themselves for the noble cause of social service.

The second chapter covers a large number of such great personalities from India such as – Kasturba Gandhi, Muthulakshmi Reddy, Kamala Nehru, Prabhavati Devi, Dr. Merry Poonam Lucoz, Asha Devi, Rajkumari Amrat Kaur, Rama Bai Dongare, Mai Harshe, Ramabai Ranade, Pisanhari, Madame Blawetski, Tara Cheriyan, Yashodhara Dasappa, Chandravati Rathore, Isabelle Thorben, Katherine Hellion, Merriam Lester, Margaret Cousins, Mother Teresa, etc. Those from the rest of the world highlighted in the third chapter include - Florence Nightingale, Elizabeth Fri, Anna Freud, Maria Montessori, Henry Clover, Merry Jean, Merry Scott, Ms. Emily, Sujuko, Dr. Keith Campbell, Doreen Chiang-Chi Chec, Dr. Sakori, Angela Davis, Donna Lillian, Jayini Marx, Claudia Johnson, etc.

Major contributions to the women liberation movement in the 19th and 20th century were made by the ladies who, along with looking after their familial and professional responsibilities had come forward for emancipation and constructive support of their less privileged, poor and helpless 'sisters'. Chapter four describes how the Indian women like Mrs.Kama Devi Chattopadhaya, Tahira, Devi Mai, Abala Basu, Subbulakshi, Mrs. Savarkar, Urmila Shastri, Shivdevi, Kamalabai Hospeth, Lalitha Shastri, Anna Chandy, Dr. Iravati Karve, Jahanara, first woman engineer of India - Ms. Lalitha, etc, and the foreigners like Mrs. Roosevelt, Sarah Hela, Fillice Whitely, Emily Greenville, Jean Adams, Sigrid Anisette, Nancy Ester, Marguerite Mitchell, Evezlene Booth, Harriet Stowe, Marguerite Sanger, etc, could accomplish this with the strength of their serene character, devotion of talents and strong will-power...
...The glorious biographies of the courageous women presented in the last chapter make us feel that womanhood, if charged with internal urge and will-power can indeed prove to be supernormal. The lives of Helen Keller, Phinavarakini, Alexandra Neil, Sara Fuller, Ms. Jones, Edith Bone, Kusum Kacchwaha, Dedi Morse, Sheila Scott, Sevati, Kantaben, Ms. Karlvin, etc, deserve special mention in this regard. Some of these women were physically handicapped by birth or were virtually made so by the circumstances. They not only overcame these adversities by their zeal and mental power and made best use of their other faculties for the welfare of many others and set shining examples even for the healthy and fortunate ones to excel the available talents and potentials for better purposes worth the purpose of human life.

This volume gains special weightage in the context of the state of women in the modern society. Virtually all over the world, the status of women could be broadly classified - with obvious variation according to the type and intensity of the effects of different circumstances of their lives - into two broad categories: liberated and well off ones and the relatively poor, weak, ignorant and oppressed ones. By and large, majority of the women in the first category too are subjected to direct or indirect exploitation. Free-sex, commercialization of beauty and woman's body in the present age of advertisements is a curse on womanhood in the name of 'liberation and forwardness'. This has added to the social anarchy, sex-scandals, and psychological perversion in the materialistically developed countries.

Women in the developing countries and the rest of the world are facing worst effects of the mushroom growth of the 'mixed culture' in the 'civilized' and 'westernized' sections of their societies. The second category of sufferers is found in majority here. In India alone, the number of rapes and deaths due to dowry related conflicts has risen to the extent which would make humanity cry over with shame.

Most of the Indian women in the second category are not even aware of their fundamental rights and equality of justice granted to them by the constitution. Despite several attempts from the governmental fronts and constant campaign and creative projects undertaken by several women and social welfare organizations, the dawn of total liberation and justice appears to be far from their sight. Apart from their literacy and upliftment, a lot more needs to be done towards educating the male members of their families too.

Acharya Sharma was a great spiritual saint and social reformer who could feel the pains and agonies of all beings. He and his wife Smt. Bhagawati Devi Sharma had offered support and help towards elevating the status of women in average Indian society. They had also enlightened the lives of many deprived ladies by inspiring their family members to give them due respect and affection. They had donated their own property for the cause of social welfare. The first Girls' Intermediate College started by them in the interior of North India in a village (Amalkheda) near Agra stands among the visible monuments of their altruist service.

Acharya Sharma and his wife had initiated effective programs of women's welfare and arousal of the power of womanhood under the banner of "Nari Jagaran Abhiyan" of their "Yug Nirman" mission. The present volume is also a part of the awareness campaign under this noble effort. It should help educe self-confidence and internal strength in women as most of them would naturally feel proud of being women after reading or listening about the inspiring lives and almost miraculous and immortal deeds of so many great women of the present era. The eloquent discussions given in this volume would also make it an important source of thoughtful guidance for all those who seriously want to do something for improving the status of women...

...Acharya Sharma was among the very few scholarly saints who had initiated mass education programs from the religious front, emphasizing the need for betterment of the condition of women in all respects. He had warned the leaders of the nation and the supposed 'Architects' of the society that - "no society, no nation could rise and substantially benefit from any kind of developmental programs if half of its population, viz., the women and girls, live in a practically handicapped and suppressed state. How can one remain healthy if half of his body is virtually paralyzed or is weakened severely?"

Man and woman are complementary to each other. Both together form the family and thus contribute to the making of the society, nation and the world as a whole. Gain or loss of one in any form is that of the other too. The orthodox, egotist or selfish men, who consider woman as the 'weaker sex' must understand that the rise and amelioration of women’s status is going to be of greater help to men too. There is no reason for them to be suspicious of losing their own power and rights which they deserve because of their own virtues and share in the society.

The seeds of good or bed tendencies are sown in the child's mind by the mother only. She is the first teacher of the new generation. A healthy, morally refined and talented mother can train her child better and therefore offer better citizens to the society too. Noting the need of refinement of talents and awakening of righteous intellect in these moments of - 'threat to the very survival of humanity', it becomes all the more important to work on war-footing to let womanhood blossom in full spring and help turn the present scenario towards the better side. Deliberations cited in this volume convincingly make it clear that women can indeed lead the world towards a bright future because of the natural power of their zeal, pure sentiments, courage, endurance and determination.

In his arduous attempts towards resurrecting the divine values of the Indian culture, Acharya Shriram Sharma has pioneered what could be normally termed as miraculous on different horizons for social, intellectual and spiritual elevation of men and women. On religious front too, he had successfully brought the true knowledge of Gayatri and Yagya within the reach of all humans without any discrimination of caste, creed, sex or social status, etc and revived the original philosophies of the Vedic age in scientific light. The clairvoyance of this spiritually empowered sagacious scholar has assured the world of a bright future in store and has declared the 21st century as the "Century of Women."

happy shivratri

OM. Tryambakam yajamahe

Sugandhim pushti-vardhanam

Urvarukamiva bandhanan

Mrityor mukshiya mamritat

Meaning of Maha Mrityunjaya Mantra...

OM. We worship and adore you, O three-eyed one, O Shiva. You are sweet gladness, the fragrance of life, who nourishes us, restores our health, and causes us to thrive. As, in due time, the stem of the cucumber weakens, and the gourd if freed from the vine, so free us from attachment and death, and do not withhold immortality.

love yr self....

If u can love yr self then u can love others very true.coz b4 love some1 u must know what u loves, what to be loved...and what will make u love....ad why to love...n thats the love prayer......I realize my love! once u will love yr slef u will feel who world to be loved!

Thursday, February 11, 2010

MAN & GOD is FAITH

An atheist professor of philosophy speaks to his class
on the problem
science has with God, The Almighty.
He asks one of his new Muslim students to stand
and.....

Professor: You are a Muslim, aren't you, son?

Student : Yes, sir.
Prof: So you believe in God?
Student : Absolutely, sir.
Prof: Is God good?
Student : Sure.
Prof: Is God all-powerful?
Student : Yes.
Prof: My brother died of cancer even though he prayed
to God to heal him.
Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill.
But God didn't. How is this God good then? Hmm?
(Student is silent.)
Prof: You can't answer, can you? Let's start again,
young fella. Is God good?
Student :Yes.
Prof: Is Satan good?
Student : No.
Prof: Where does Satan come from?
Student : From...God...
Prof: That's right. Tell me son, is there evil in this
world?
Student : Yes.
Prof: Evil is everywhere, isn't it? And God did make
everything. Correct?
Student : Yes.
Prof: So who created evil?
(Student does not answer.)
Prof: Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness?
All these terrible things exist in the world, don't
they?
Student :Yes, sir.
Prof: So, who created them?
(Student has no answer.)
Prof: Science says you have 5 senses you use to
identify and observe the world around you. Tell me,
son...Have you ever seen God?
Student: No, sir.
Prof: Tell us if you have ever heard your God?
Student : No , sir.
Prof: Have you ever felt your God, tasted your God,
smelt your God? Have you ever had any sensory
perception of God for that matter?
Student : No, sir. I'm afraid I haven't.
Prof: Yet you still believe in Him?
Student : Yes.
Prof: According to empirical, testable, demonstrable
protocol, science says your GOD doesn't exist. What do
you say to that, son?
Student : Nothing. I only have my faith.
Prof: Yes. Faith. And that is the problem science has.
Student : Professor, is there such a thing as heat?
Prof: Yes.
Student : And is there such a thing as cold?
Prof: Yes.
Student : No sir. There isn't.
(The lecture theatre becomes very quiet with this turn
of events.)
Student : Sir, you can have lots of heat, even more
heat, superheat, mega heat, white heat, a little heat
or no heat. But we don't have anything called cold. We
can hit 458 degrees below zero which is no heat, but
we can't go any further after that. There is no such
thing as
cold. Cold is only a word we use to describe the
absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat is
energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just
the absence of it.
(There is pin-drop silence in the lecture theatre.)

Student : What about darkness, Professor? Is there
such a thing as darkness?
Prof: Yes. What is night if there isn't darkness?
Student : You're wrong again, sir. Darkness is the
absence of something. You can have low light, normal
light, bright light, flashing light....But if you have
no light constantly, you have nothing and it's called
darkness, isn't it? In reality, darkness isn't. If it
were you would be able to make darkness darker,
wouldn't you?

Prof: So what is the point you are making, young man?
Student : Sir, my point is your philosophical premise
is flawed.
Prof: Flawed? Can you explain how?
Student : Sir, you are working on the premise of
duality. You argue there is life and then there is
death, a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the
concept of God as something finite, something we can
measure.
Sir, science can't even explain a thought. It uses
electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much
less fully understood either one. To view death as the
opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that
death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is
not the opposite
of life: just the absence of it.
Now tell me, Professor. Do you teach your students
that they evolved from a monkey?
Prof: If you are referring to the natural evolutionary
process, yes, of course, I do.
Student : Have you ever observed evolution with your
own eyes, sir?
(The Professor shakes his head with a smile, beginning
to realize where the argument is going.)
Student : Since no one has ever observed the process
of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this
process is an on-going endeavour, are you not teaching
your opinion, sir? Are you not a scientist but a
preacher?

(The class is in uproar.)
Student : Is there anyone in the class who has ever
seen the Professor's brain?
(The class breaks out into laughter.)

Student : Is there anyone here who has ever heard the
Professor's brain, felt it, touched or smelt
it?.....No one appears to have done so. So, according
to the established rules of empirical, stable,
demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no
brain, sir. With all due respect, sir, how do we then
trust your lectures, sir?
(The room is silent. The professor stares at the
student, his face unfathomable.)
Prof: I guess you'll have to take them on faith, son.

Student : That is it sir.. The link between MAN & GOD
is FAITH. That is all that keeps things moving & alive.

Have Breakfast… or…Be Breakfast!

Have Breakfast… or…Be Breakfast!
Who sells the largest number of cameras in India?
Your guess is likely to be Sony, Canon or Nikon. Answer is none of the above. The winner is Nokia whose main line of business in India is not cameras but cell phones.
Reason being cameras bundled with cell phones are outselling stand alone cameras. Now, what prevents the cell phone from replacing the camera outright? Nothing at all. One can only hope the Sony’s and Canons are taking note.
Try this. Who is the biggest in music business in India? You think it is HMV Sa-Re-Ga-Ma? Sorry. The answer is Airtel. By selling caller tunes (that play for 30 seconds) Airtel makes more than what music companies make by selling music albums (that run for hours).
Incidentally Airtel is not in music business. It is the mobile service provider with the largest subscriber base in India. That sort of competitor is difficult to detect, even more difficult to beat (by the time you have identified him he has already gone past you). But if you imagine that Nokia and Bharti (Airtel's parent) are breathing easy you can't be farther from truth.
Nokia confessed that they all but missed the Smart phone bus. They admit that Apple's I phone and Google's Android can make life difficult in future. But you never thought Google was a mobile company, did you? If these illustrations mean anything, there is a bigger game unfolding. It is not so much about mobile or music or camera or emails?
The "Mahabharata" (the great Indian epic battle) is about "what is tomorrow's personal digital device"? Will it be a souped up mobile or a palmtop with a telephone? All these are little wars that add up to that big battle. Hiding behind all these wars is a gem of a question – "who is my competitor?"
Once in a while, to intrigue my students I toss a question at them. It says "What Apple did to Sony, Sony did to Kodak, explain?" The smart ones get the answer almost immediately. Sony defined its market as audio (music from the walkman). They never expected an IT company like Apple to encroach into their audio domain. Come to think of it, is it really surprising? Apple as a computer maker has both audio and video capabilities. So what made Sony think he won't compete on pure audio? "Elementary Watson". So also Kodak defined its business as film cameras, Sony defines its businesses as "digital."
In digital camera the two markets perfectly meshed. Kodak was torn between going digital and sacrificing money on camera film or staying with films and getting left behind in digital technology. Left undecided it lost in both. It had to. It did not ask the question "who is my competitor for tomorrow?" The same was true for IBM whose mainframe revenue prevented it from seeing the PC. The same was true of Bill Gates who declared "internet is a fad!" and then turned around to bundle the browser with windows to bury Netscape. The point is not who is today's competitor. Today's competitor is obvious. Tomorrow's is not.
In 2008, who was the toughest competitor to British Airways in India? Singapore airlines? Better still, Indian airlines? Maybe, but there are better answers. There are competitors that can hurt all these airlines and others not mentioned. The answer is videoconferencing and telepresence services of HP and Cisco. Travel dropped due to recession. Senior IT executives in India and abroad were compelled by their head quarters to use videoconferencing to shrink travel budget. So much so, that the mad scramble for American visas from Indian techies was nowhere in sight in 2008. (India has a quota of something like 65,000 visas to the U.S. They were going a-begging. Blame it on recession!). So far so good. But to think that the airlines will be back in business post recession is something I would not bet on. In short term yes. In long term a resounding no. Remember, if there is one place where Newton's law of gravity is applicable besides physics it is in electronic hardware. Between 1977 and 1991 the prices of the now dead VCR (parent of Blue-Ray disc player) crashed to one-third of its original level in India. PC's price dropped from hundreds of thousands of rupees to tens of thousands. If this trend repeats then telepresence prices will also crash. Imagine the fate of airlines then. As it is not many are making money. Then it will surely be RIP!
India has two passions. Films and cricket. The two markets were distinctly different. So were the icons. The cricket gods were Sachin and Sehwag. The filmi gods were the Khans (Aamir Khan, Shah Rukh Khan and the other Khans who followed suit). That was, when cricket was fundamentally test cricket or at best 50 over cricket. Then came IPL and the two markets collapsed into one. IPL brought cricket down to 20 overs. Suddenly an IPL match was reduced to the length of a 3 hour movie. Cricket became film's competitor. On the eve of IPL matches movie halls ran empty. Desperate multiplex owners requisitioned the rights for screening IPL matches at movie halls to hang on to the audience. If IPL were to become the mainstay of cricket, as it is likely to be, films have to sequence their releases so as not clash with IPL matches. As far as the audience is concerned both are what in India are called 3 hour "tamasha" (entertainment). Cricket season might push films out of the market.
Look at the products that vanished from India in the last 20 years. When did you last see a black and white movie? When did you last use a fountain pen? When did you last type on a typewriter? The answer for all the above is "I don't remember!" For some time there was a mild substitute for the typewriter called electronic typewriter that had limited memory. Then came the computer and mowed them all. Today most technologically challenged guys like me use the computer as an upgraded typewriter. Typewriters per se are nowhere to be seen.
One last illustration. 20 years back what were Indians using to wake them up in the morning? The answer is "alarm clock." The alarm clock was a monster made of mechanical springs. It had to be physically keyed every day to keep it running. It made so much noise by way of alarm, that it woke you up and the rest of the colony. Then came quartz clocks which were sleeker. They were much more gentle though still quaintly called "alarms." What do we use today for waking up in the morning? Cellphone! An entire industry of clocks disappeared without warning thanks to cell phones. Big watch companies like Titan were the losers. You never know in which bush your competitor is hiding!
On a lighter vein, who are the competitors for authors? Joke spewing machines? (Steve Wozniak, the co-founder of Apple, himself a Pole, tagged a Polish joke telling machine to a telephone much to the mirth of Silicon Valley). Or will the competition be story telling robots? Future is scary! The boss of an IT company once said something interesting about the animal called competition. He said "Have breakfast …or…. be breakfast"! That sums it up rather neatly.

—Dr. Y. L. R. Moorthi is a professor at the Indian Institute of Management Bangalore. He is an M.Tech from Indian Institute of Technology, Madras and a post graduate in management from IIM, Bangalore.

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

The Dreams!

tamara sundar sangath ni sathe vavaya hatan shamna ( my
dreams grown with u !)

tamara madhur muskan ni sath ugya hata shamna ( with
yr sweet smile the dreams grows)

fulon ni bagiya man besine mahekta hatan aa shamna!

(the dreams are gives me fragrance like garden's
roses!)

chand ni rat man tarla o ni sath tamtamta hata aa
sahmna!

( in the full moon night the dreams are twinkles like
the star!)

Dariya ni bhini mati man banavya hata ghar hamna !

(with u I have make the our home by the wet sand of
the sea at the beach !)

jindgee na moja o ni tarap udavee gayree ye ghar
hamna !

( but the waves of the life - like sea destroyed that
house !)

mari aankho man thi ozal nathi thaya tamara nayan
namana!

( yr beautifull eyes is ever with in my eyes !)

jetlee bhulavvani koshish akree tetla yaad aavyan tame
bamna !

(when i have tried to forget u but ur sweet memory
become double !)

Suraj na uday ane ast ni sath ne nindar man chho
hamna!

(with the sunrise n sunset u are in my dreams n in
sleep also !) ,

kon kahe chhe door chho ? rahesho sada tame amari
sath bas ame to sajavinshun aatma ni sang tamara
shamna!

(_who told that u r far from me ? u r with me n will
ever ! I will dreams 4 u with my soul)

SET A GOOD EXAMPLE

A philosophy professor stood before his class and had some items in front
of
him. When class began, wordlessly he picked up a large empty jar and
proceeded to filled it rocks about 2" in diameter.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it
as.
So the Professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them in to
he
jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the
open
areas between the rocks. The students laughed.

He asked his students again if the jar was full? They agreed that yes,
it
was.

The professor then picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.

Of course, the sand filled up everything else.

Now," said the professor, "I want you to recognize that this is your
ife.

The rocks are the important things - your family, your partner, your
health,
and your children - anything that is so important to you that if it were
lost, you would be nearly destroyed.

The pebbles are the other things in life that matter, but on a smaller
scale. The pebbles represent things like your job, your house, and your
car.

The sand is everything else. The small stuff.






If you put the sand or the pebbles into the jar first, there is no room
for
the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your energy and
time on the small stuff, material things, you will never have room for the
things that are truly most important.

Pay attention to the things that are critical in your life. Play with
our children. Take your partner out dancing.
>
> There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner
> party and fix the disposal." Take care of the rocks first - the things
> that
> really matter.
>
> Set your priorities. The rest is just pebbles and sand.
>
> Recently, I had a very touching experience with my six-year-old daughter
> that reminded me of the importance of this suggestion - to set a good
> example. One of the tiny ways I like to contribute to my community is
to,
> wherever possible and reasonable, pick up trash and put it in the garbage
> can. I've been doing this for years and, every once in a while, I point
> out
> to my kids how important it is for all of us to do our small part to keep
> our streets, parks and neighbourhoods clean.
>
> The other day, Kenna and I were walking out of a coffeehouse and headed
> toward our car. I had noticed a bunch of trash that was on the ground.
> On
> this particular day, however, I didn't pick it up. When I reached my
car,
> I
> looked around and Kenna wasn't with me. Concerned, I turned around and
> there she was, picking up the trash and putting it in the can. What made
> this episode even more priceless was her comment: "Daddy, aren't you
> forgetting something?"
>
> Whether you have children or not, this strategy is an important one to
> keep
> in mind. The truth is, we are setting some kind of example, whether we
> know
> it or not. Our actions are seen by others and are factored into the
> consciousness of those around us. While any single action might not have
> much of an effect on another person, there is a cumulative effect. It's
> up
> to all of us to determine what type of example we want to set-loving,
> positive, and helpful; or lazy, apathetic, and selfish.
>
> The decision to set a good example in as many aspects of life as possible
> helps guide your behaviour and your reactions to stress. I try, for
> example, not to get too upright in traffic and while waiting in long
> lines.
> I do this not only because it's a less stressful way to experience life
> but
> also because I wish to send a message to those around me that life
doesn't
> have to be perfect in order to be happy and peaceful.
>
> Take a look at the examples you are setting for those around you. Are
> they
> the examples you wish to send - or would you rather be sending different
> types? Whatever you answer, this is an important question to ask
> yourself.
> It can help you make behavioural and attitudinal adjustments that will
> make
> your life less stressful and more meaningful to yourself and to those
> around u.

UNLIKE HERO

Not many people have heard about Bill Havens. But Bill

became an unlikely hero of sorts - at least among those

who knew him. At the 1924 Olympic Games in

Paris, the sport of canoe racing was added to the list of

international games competitions. The US team was

the favorite in the four-man canoe race and Bill Havens

was one of the members of that team.

As the time for the Olympics neared, it became clear

that Bill's wife would give birth to their first child about

the time the US team would be competing in the Paris

Games. In 1924, there

were no jet airliners

from Europe to the

United States and only

slow ocean-going ships

operated between the

two continents. And so

Bill found himself in a

dilemma. Should he go

to Paris and risk not

being at his wife's side

when their baby was

born? Or should he

withdraw from the

team and remain with

his family? Bill's wife

insisted that he go

to Paris.

After all, competing in

the Olympics was the

culmination of a lifelong

dream. But Bill felt

the conflict and, after

much soul-searching,

decided to withdraw

from the competition.

He considered being at

her side his highest

priority - even higher

than going to Paris to

fulfill his dream.



As it turned out, the United States four-man canoe

team won the gold medal in Paris. And Bill's wife was

late in giving birth to their baby. She was so late, in fact,

that Bill could have competed in the event and returned

home in time to be with her when she gave birth. People

said, "What a shame." But Bill said he had no regrets. For

the rest of his life, he believed he had made the right

decision. He knew what was most important to him.

Not everybody figures that out. And he acted on what

he believed was best.

The baby eventually

born to Bill and his wife

was a boy, whom they

named Frank. Twentyeight

years later, in

1952, Bill received a

cablegram from Frank.

It was sent from

Helsinki, Finland, where

the 1952 Olympic

Games were being held.

The cablegram read:

"Dad, I have won! I'm

bringing home the gold

medal mom told me

you had lost while

waiting for me to

be born."

Frank Havens had just

won the gold medal for

the United States in the

canoe-racing event, a

medal his father had

dreamed of winning

but never did.



Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have the
power to create conditions in your life.
What you speak about, you can bring about.

If you keep saying you can't stand your job,
you might lose your job.

If you keep saying you can't stand your body,
your body can become sick.

If you keep saying you can't stand your car,
your car could be stolen or just stop operating.

If you keep saying you're always broke, guess what?
You'll always be broke.

If you keep saying you can't trust a man or trust a woman,
you will always find someone in your life to hurt and betray you.

If you keep saying you can't find a job,
you will remain unemployed.

If you keep saying you can't find someone
to love you or believe in you,
our very thoughts will attract more
experiences to confirm your beliefs.

Turn your thoughts and conversations around to be more positive
and power packed with faith, hope, love and action.

Don't be afraid to believe that you can
have what you want and deserve.

Watch your "Thoughts,"
they become words;

Watch your "Words,"
they become actions;

Watch your "Actions,"
they become habits;

Watch your "Habits,"
they become character;

Watch your "Character",
for it becomes your "Destiny"

So.......To prevent any obstacles... ....

GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY!

Enjoy every minute you live!!

BE BOLD......BE FRAGRANCIVE..........

A daughter complained to her father about her life
and how things were so hard for her. She did not how
she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She
was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as
one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He
filled three pots with water and placed each on a high
fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In one he placed
carrots, in the second he placed eggs, and the last he
placed ground coffee beans. He let them sit and boil,
without saying a word.

The daughter sucked her teeth and impatiently waited,
wondering what he was doing. In about twenty minutes
he and turned off the burners. He fished the carrots
out and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out
and placed them a bowl. Then he ladled the coffee out
and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her he asked. "Darling, what do you see."

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

He brought her closer and asked her to feel the
carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. He
then asked her to take an egg and break it. After
pulling off the shell, she observed the hard- boiled
egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. She
smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

She humbly asked. "What does it mean Father?"

He explained that each of them had faced the same
adversity, boiling water, but each reacted
differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting.
But after being subjected to the boiling water, it
softened and became weak.

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had
protected its liquid interior. But after sitting
through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans were unique however. After
they were in the boiling water, they had changed the
water.

"Which are you," he asked his daughter. "When
adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?
Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean? "

++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

How about you? Are you the carrot that seems hard,
but with pain and adversity do you wilt and become
soft and lose your strength?

Are you the egg, which starts off with a malleable
heart? Were you a fluid spirit, but after a death, a
breakup, a divorce, or a layoff have you become
hardened and stiff. Your shell looks the same, but
are you bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and
heart?

Or are you like the coffee bean? The bean changes
the hot water, the thing that is bringing the pain, to
its peak flavor reaches 212 degrees Fahrenheit. When
the water gets the hottest, it just tastes better.

If you are like the bean, when things are at their
worst, you get better and make things better around
you.

our struggles have a cosmic pupose

> A man went to a shop, picked up a beautiful cup and
> said " My God ! this cup is so beautiful.''
>
> Suddenly the cup started talking to the man.''oh,
> man, I am beautiful right now, but what was the
> state of my being before the pot maker made me so
> beautiful ?'
>
> I was sheer mud when the potter pulled me out from
> mother earth. I felt wreathed in tremendous pain
> while being separated from mother earth. But the
> potter said , 'JUST WAIT '. Then he churned me. I
> felt giddy when I was churned, and asked him 'Why
> are you so cruel ? ' The potter said ' JUST WAIT
> '.Then he put me into an oven and heated me up. I
> felt completely burnt. There was tremendous pain and
> I asked him again ' Why are you so cruel ? ' He said
> ' JUST WAIT '
>
> After that he poured hot paint on me n I felt the
> fumes and irritation.I again asked him 'Why are you
> so cruel ? ' He said again ' JUST WAIT '. he put me
> into an oven and heated me to make me strong, I felt
> life was so pain ful hence pleaded with the potter
> to leave me free. he said 'JUST WAIT '. And finally
> he took me to a mirror and said ' Now look at
> yourself''. Lo, What a change ! I found myself so
> beautiful. ''
>
> We have to wait ; our struggles have a cosmic
> purpose. When pur agenda is not fulfilled, it gives
> us pain. But universe has its own plans. We have to
> wait and make our struggles sacred.Greatness lies
> not in being strong but in the right use of scared
> strength.

DOES GOD EXIST?

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.
As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation..
They talked about so many things and various subjects.
When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said:
"I don't believe that God exists."

"Why do you say that?" asked the customer. "Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist.
Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people?
Would there be abandoned children?

If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain.
I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things."
The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want to start an argument.
The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.

Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard.
He looked dirty and unkempt. The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber:
"You know what? Barbers do not exist."
"How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber.
"I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!"
"No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist because
if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside."

"Ah, but barbers DO exist! That's what happens when people do not come to me."
"Exactly!" affirmed the customer. "That's the point! God, too, DOES exist!
That's what happens when people do not go to Him and don't look to Him for help.
That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."


BE BLESSED & BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS !!!!!!!

FRESH WOUND NEEDS HEALING

TUZE KHONEKA MALAL NAHI HAI ITNA MERE DOST
ZAKHM DIYA TUNE JO AISA JISPE MARHAM NAHI HO SAKTA,
TUFANON SE BHI LE AATA MAIN JASHN-E- CHIRAG SALAMAT
PAR TUNE TO KAR LI ANDHERON KI AAHAT SE MUHABBAT.
RUSVAIYON NE TERI, CHUARAI NINDEN MERI,
RAHTI HAIN AANKHE DIN ME BHI GHERI GHERI
NASHE MAN ME RAHTA HUN TERE GAM ME MAIN DUBA
MAUT AUR JINDGI KI SALAKHEN, SAMNE KHADI BAN SUBA.
MAHERBAN TU HO JA AYE MERE DOST
KARLE AHESAN TU MUZ PAR MERE DOST
BHALE HUN JINDA SAMAZ LE MURDA HUN MERE DOST
DAFNA KE TERE HATHON SE SUKUN DE DE MERE DOST
ALLAH BHI JANE MERI MOHABBAT PARVAN CHADHI HAI
MALAIKA KI JABAN PE AB FAISLE KI GHADI HAI.
TUZE KHONEKA MALAL NAHI HAI ITNA MERE DOST
ZAKHM DIAY TUNE JO AISA JISPE MARHAM NAHI HO SAKTA,

http://in.rediff.com/news/2001/feb/08spec1.htm

KNOW THIS MAN

Monday, February 8, 2010

Waiting 4 worth

intezar ki ye gahdiayn na hotee,
to fir tanhayiyon ki kimat hi kya hotee?
yaden bhi dimag me na hotee taro taza,
to dil me aapki tasveer kaise hotee?
magroob ho gaya hota main bhi jamane ki tarah,
to aapki takdeer me , mehboob ki rusvaiyan hi hotee.
jinda hai vo mohabbat aaj bhi,
varna chandni rat me chatak pyasi na hotee.
ho gaya hota rab ham se door
to aap hamari takdeer hi na hotee
prem varsha se nachta na hota man mayur
to aaj ki sham itnee haseen na hotee
hai yadi faisla manzil pane ka,
to mukaddar bhi tumhare hath me hogee.
na zuko tum, na moodo tum, na ruko tum,
khuda ke ghar der hai andher nahi hotee.
sirf kalam hi nahi kafan fi sath me rakha hai maine,
isliye maut ki bhi parva nahee hotee.
sach ki rah pe chalne vale hote hai mot se be-parvah,
kyonki maut bhi rooh ki aakhree manzil nahi hotee.
rooh to aapki bhi jeenda hai ye yakeen hai hamen,
varna aapki palko ki talen askon ki ye mala na hotee!

Lakh Samzaun tuze o sajni.!

Lakh Samzaun tuze o sajni.!
dil se manaun tuze o namni...
pyar se pukarun tuze o ramni..
sakhi tuze bat meri samz na aayi..

tan man mera tera pyasa, dil me chhayi udasa
teri muskan se kar de andhere em ujasa,
kab s epukarun aa ja mere harjai
sakhi tuze bat meri samz na aayi..

teri har albeli ada, us par meri jan fida
dil pe mere ahesan bada, marta rahun mai tumpe sada
tune pyar ki varsha na abhi tak barsai
sakhi tuze bat meri samz na aayi..

prem ganga samayi teri zulfon ki jata
umadgumad kar aa ja banke ghata
bunbund tarsa main, intezar me ek pal na kata
birah ki aag me rahun main duniya se bata
halat dekh tuze meri taras na aayee
sakhi tuze bat meri samz na aayi..

aa ja sakhi mori ab to kali ghata hai chhayi
madmast kar deti savan ki ritu aayee
chale aise chanchal pavan aagosh me le le sara chaman
madan mohi ada se har kali hai sharmayi
sakhi tuze bat meri samz na aayi..

tune sari sagayi nibhai
par dedi muzko bidai
tuze apne pyar ki hai duhai
kar le tu ab thodi si bevafai
sakhi tuze bat meri samz me aayi.....?

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Aansu the Tears!

Kabhi meetha . Kabhi khara to kabhi thada – garam ye aansu ( tears !)
Bahthe hai har ek mode par Insan ke aansu !
Meethe hai vah Milan ke khushi ke sneh ke aansu !
Khoya jisne nij swajan ko . biraha ke khraa aansu !
Nikal gayee hoge bad-duava bahe honge gram aansu !
Dee hogee kisi ke man ko shanthi , bahe honge thande aansu !
Ban gaya hoga ganga jal sa pavitra prayaschit ka aansu!
Rim-zim baras rahee hai brkha (rain ) ishwar ke khusi ke aansun !
sapoot khoye hai matrubhumi ne maan ( mother ) baha rahee hai aansun !
aankhe baras arhee hai avirat ( constantly ) kab tak bahthe rahenge aansun ?

Godhra ho ya Kaluchak ho netaji ( Indian politician ) baahthe rahenge magar-machchhha (crocodile) ke aansu !
Koi tho jake puchho unhen ponchhe hai akbhi gareb ke sachche aansun ?
iswar de sanmati in rakta ( thirsty of blood ) ke pyason ko !
prabhu aap bhi bahathe rahenge ye rakta ke aansu ?

LOVE BIRD


LOVE BIRD..............!

I came in desert lonely alone, I came in desert lonely alone!
left my native an came alone! I came in desert lonely alone!

the remembrance of my land and people making me sad!
there was nothing to enjoy , I feel so bad!

I was dozing in the noon!
dreaming for ferry, star and moon!

the sweet voice took my attention on the way!
came out with anxiety , left the tension away!

The bird was chirping, like it telling me ,
" 'm the beauty of desert , enjoy the sweet voice hear me"

"you are my guest , See good friend in me,
'm a delicate lovely bird care for me"

I promise her that 'm there for you,
neither won't leave nor forget you!

If I do that forgive me never,
I will be a prisoner for you ever!

poured your eternal voice in my ears,
It will take my sorrow and fears!

It will whispers for long the time,
I will think that you are mine!

your memory had cherish heart and mind,
thanks to the GOD this life I could u find!

Love the holy river

Don't let the miles between us
Keep our love apart
Just listen close and you will hear
The beating of my heart

No distance, will ever keep
My heart from loving you
There are no more tears for it to weep
For a love that runs so true

I'll be there with you one day soon
To love you everyday
And then my heart will sing a tune
And you will hear it say

I've finally found my one true love
As true as one can be
And now your all I'm thinking of
Forever stay with me

PEOPLE CORNER

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a
lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know
what to do for that person. When someone is in your
life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you
have expressed. They have come to assist you through a
difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are
there for the reason you need them to be. Then,
without any wrongdoing on your part or at
an inconvenient time, this person will say or do
something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer
you sent up has been answered and now it is time to
move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never
done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of
joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid
emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the
lesson, love the person and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships and areas of your
life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant
sure will help us in our approach to life.